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10 Unbelievable
Chinese Cultures
Things in the East are surprising. Do you agree?
Foreign media often highlight unique Chinese customs, practices, and taboos unheard of elsewhere, creating quite a culture shock for outsiders. But are these customs really that unusual?
We’ve compiled some of the quirkiest habits, traditions, and styles that have made headlines across Western media. If you've ever travelled to China, see if you think these observations are spot-on! Or, perhaps you even catch yourself doing these things that amaze visitors!
Culture Shocks in China
1. Standing Chopsticks Upright in Rice
One thing to never do in Chinese culture? Stick your chopsticks upright into a bowl of rice! This act is associated with offerings made to the dead, so it’s seen as highly inappropriate at the dining table.
Similarly, if you need to put down your chopsticks, always rest them beside your bowl while you chat or reach for the soup.
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2. The Bride Price
A Wedding Tradition with Meaning
Chinese weddings are steeped in fascinating traditions, and one of the key customs is the bride price or betrothal gift. While I’m no expert on all the details, here’s what I do know: before the big day, both sets of parents usually meet to discuss the bride price. In some regions, there’s even a customary amount. Essentially, it’s a sum of money given by the groom’s family to the bride’s family, often symbolizing respect and goodwill. This gift isn’t just ceremonial—it’s also commonly used to help set up the new couple’s household. It’s a tradition that’s both meaningful and practical!
What is 'cai li彩礼', which translates as 'bride price'? And is it sexist?
3. Countless Traditional Festivals
China’s traditional festivals highlight deep-rooted cultural values. Spring Festival (春节), or Lunar New Year, is the biggest celebration, marked by family gatherings, fireworks, and symbolic foods. Qingming Festival (清明节), around April 4, focuses on honouring ancestors with grave visits, while the Dragon Boat Festival (端午节) in late June celebrates with zongzi (sticky rice dumplings) and boat races. The Mid-Autumn Festival (中秋节), a time for family reunions, involves moon-viewing and sharing mooncakes. Each festival emphasizes respect for family and tradition, with customs central to fully experiencing these cultural events.
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4. Feng Shui?!!
Feng Shui is an ancient Chinese practice that aims to enhance luck and fortune by considering the location, orientation, and surrounding environment of places like homes, shops, and burial sites. Historically, it was widely used to determine the positioning of important buildings such as palaces, temples, and residential homes. Feng Shui masters use compasses and study natural features like mountains and rivers to select auspicious spots and ideal times for events like construction or relocation.
Critics, however, argue that Feng Shui lacks scientific backing and consider it a superstition that can sometimes stifle creativity in architecture and design. Despite facing suppression during China's Cultural Revolution, Feng Shui remains a deeply rooted cultural practice that influences modern living and decision-making for many.
Feng Shui | A system of ancient Chinese knowledge
5. Flower-Giving Etiquette
Flower-giving mistakes are linked to a curse?
When gifting flowers for a grand opening, avoid artificial flowers, as they can seem insincere, and steer clear of all-white bouquets, which symbolize mourning. Plum blossoms are also a no-go due to their association with misfortune. Be cautious with chrysanthemums—while some represent wealth and success, others are linked to farewells.
Pick the right blooms to convey joy and prosperity!
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7. Knock, Ring, Enter
The Chinese Doorway Dance
Here’s a little etiquette that’s more than just polite—it’s practical too! Before entering a room, always ring the doorbell and knock three times. Pause for a few seconds, then open the door while saying, “Excuse me” or “Sorry to disturb you.” This small ritual isn’t just about respecting others (visible or not!); it’s also a savvy move to avoid any awkward hotel mix-ups with room assignments. A courteous knock never goes amiss!
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6. Mind Your Shoes
The Art of Going Indoors in Asia is definitely taking off your shoes indoors. It is a deep-rooted tradition across Asia, especially in Japan, which ties back to sitting or sleeping on tatami floors. The etiquette is simple: at the entrance, remove your shoes, slip into the provided indoor slippers, and neatly place your shoes in a rack or by the side. If you're stepping onto tatami mats or heading to the loo, it’s time for another shoe swap—most bathrooms even have their special slippers! Pro-tip for travellers: wear shoes that are easy to slip on and off for a hassle-free experience.
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8. The Art of Fighting for the Bill
While Asians might be known for their frugality, generosity and dignity hold immense importance in many Asian cultures. It's not unusual to hear phrases like, "I've already paid the bill," or "My friends and I always compete to pick up the tab." Hosting a meal is seen as a natural gesture, especially for close friends, birthdays, or to express gratitude for a favour. Some even say that in today’s busy world, carving out time to share a meal is more precious than the cost of dinner itself. The result? A friendly (but fierce!) battle to settle the bill, because for many, treating friends isn’t just thoughtful—it’s priceless.
Why do Chinese 'FIGHT' for paying dinner bills?
9. Sharing is Caring at the Table
In Chinese culture, meals are a communal affair, emphasizing a strong sense of togetherness. It's common to dine at large tables with a revolving centre, known as a lazy Susan, allowing everyone to easily access the variety of shared dishes. Meals are typically served family-style, with portions designed for groups to enjoy collectively. Drinks, like water or tea, are almost always served hot, reflecting both health traditions and dining customs. If finger foods are part of the spread, expect to see shared plates and a spirit of generosity, where the focus is on everyone partaking and enjoying the meal together.
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10. Pre-bed Bath is so Important
For many Asians, skipping a pre-bed bath is unthinkable. After a day of work, commuting, or outings, the thought of bringing germs into bed feels unsettling. It’s ingrained in us—skip your nightly wash, and you’ll likely face a lecture from your parents! Yet, many Westerners prefer morning showers. They often describe it as "refreshing" and a great way to start the day, a habit deeply rooted in their culture and media.
Another reason? The cold. In winter, stepping out of a warm shower into a chilly room can be unbearable. Still, for Asians, a clean body before bed isn’t just hygiene—it’s peace of mind. So, while we respect the morning shower, we’ll gladly stick to our pre-bed cleanse!
Witness Yourself!
China is a land of stunning beauty and rich traditions, offering a vibrant mix of sights, sounds, and tastes. Exploring this incredible country means immersing yourself in fascinating cultural differences that often leave visitors in awe. From quirky customs to unique practices, we've compiled the most intriguing traditions that have captured global attention. Whether you’re planning a visit or reflecting on your travels, see how these cultural gems make China truly unforgettable!
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